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'Silicon Valley's' TJ Miller Dishes On His Painful Proposal To Kate Gorney

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TJ Miller, who currently stars in HBO's "Silicon Valley", has a warning for all the guys and gals out there who are planning to propose: it's harder than it looks.

"What they don't tell you is that when you get down on your knee to propose just don't do it so quickly," Miller told Conan O'Brian, referring to his recent engagement to actress Kate Gorney.

"It was concrete, it was under this rock ... I went down fast, I went down hard, and it hurt so much. But you have to hide that because it's a really romantic moment so I was like 'Ahhhh will you Kate ... grahhh ... will you Kate, will you make me the happiest ... ahhhh.'"

Luckily for Miller, his excruciating pain didn't totally ruin the moment. "She said 'yes', which was really exciting," Miller told Conan. "Well she didn't say 'yes,' she said 'okay'."

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Laverne Cox Weighs In On 'OITNB'/'Transparent' Trans Writer Debate

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The creators behind two of today's hottest queer-championing shows, "Orange Is The New Black" and "Transparent," recently got into a little tiff at the New Yorker Festival over whether trans people should be writing and acting out trans stories.

"Transparent" showrunner Jill Soloway argued hiring trans writers is "absolutely necessary" when telling an authentic trans story, while "OITNB's" Jenji Kohan said a truly great writer can write for any character.

Another voice joined the conversation when one of the biggest faces of the trans movement, "OITNB" actress Laverne Cox, spoke with HuffPost Live's Marc Lamont Hill about the MTV documentary on transgender youth, "The T Word." Asked about Kohan and Soloway's difference of opinion, Cox explained:

I think that it is really important that trans folks are in positions of power in terms of creating our stories. I think that's crucial. I think it's vital. I don't think you necessarily need to be trans to bring humanity to trans characters. I think you have to be human and understand that we are human beings too, beyond our bodies and beyond anything sort of salacious.


Watch the full segment with Laverne Cox and stars from "The T Word" here.


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Body Of Actress Misty Upham Believed Found By Police

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SEATTLE (AP) — Police in the Seattle suburb of Auburn said Thursday that they believe they have found the body of missing actress Misty Upham, known for her roles in "August: Osage County," ''Frozen River" and "Django Unchained."

A woman's body was found in a ravine near the White River around 1 p.m. Thursday, police spokesman Steve Stocker said. Items with Upham's name on them were found nearby. Stocker said Thursday evening that the body had been turned over to a medical examiner to confirm the identification and determine the cause of death.

"Although we do not have positive identification of the body, it is presumed to be Misty Upham," Stocker said in a statement. "At this point we do not have any evidence or information to believe there is foul play."

A family friend found the body while a group of friends and family were searching in the area.

The 32-year-old Native American actress was reported missing by her family Oct. 6, a day after they told police she was suicidal.

Misty Upham's father, Charles Upham, told KIRO-FM his daughter was upset and erratic and had stopped taking medication for anxiety and bipolar disorder.

The family said Upham had moved to the Seattle area to help care for her father, who's recovering from a stroke. She had been staying on the Muckleshoot reservation.

It's Hammy Time For Chris Rock In The First 'Top Five' Trailer

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Chris Rock's "Top Five" has already been compared to "Annie Hall," so no pressure. The forthcoming comedy, which Paramount picked up after it premiered to strong praise during the Toronto International Film Festival, focuses on Andre Allen (Rock), a popular comedian who hopes to win respect from audiences with a new drama following his starring role in the lucrative "Hammy the Bear" trilogy. (The garbage pail of lowest-common-denominator Hollywood bunk is about a police bear; his catchphrase: "It's Hammy time.")

"I don't feel like doing funny movies anymore. I don't feel funny," Rock as Allen says in the first "Top Five" trailer. The irony there is that "Top Five," which Rock also wrote and directed, is super funny. It's also smart, timely and stuffed to the gills with stars: Rosario Dawson, Kevin Hart, Gabrielle Union, J.B. Smoove, Whoopi Goldberg, Adam Sandler, Jerry Seinfeld, Cedric the Entertainer, Leslie Jones and Tracy Morgan, among others. Jay Z and Kanye West are co-producers. "Top Five" is out in limited release on Dec. 5 before a nationwide bow on Dec. 12.

Shaggy's Hit Song 'It Wasn't Me' Didn't Come From Firsthand Experience

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Shaggy’s breakthrough hit “It Wasn’t Me” tells the story of a man who get’s caught cheating on his girlfriend and denies the act completely. But according to the reggae sensation himself, the song wasn’t based on his own personal experience.

When HuffPost Live host Marc Lamont Hill asked if Shaggy had ever been caught red-handed, as the lyrics of the song say, he laughed off the suggestion.

“Come on man! I’m too good,” he said.

The real inspiration behind the song came from Eddie Murphy’s 1985 stand-up comedy special “Raw,” Shaggy confirmed.

“I actually did write it from the Eddie Murphy movie. I got the whole idea from that,” he said. “I was telling somebody yesterday, songs like 'Mr. Boombastic,' 'It Wasn’t Me,' 'Angel,' these songs, I didn’t write those songs. These songs were written by a higher being. It was just ordained through me.”

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Sarah Silverman and the Art of Advocacy

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Social progress, with a concomitant increase in visibility, brings the need for that community to adapt in order to make further progress. A recent case in point is the politically correct backlash from some in the trans community directed toward Sarah Silverman and the equal-pay video from the National Women's Law Center (NWLC) last week.



As this advertising blog points out, Silverman's video, which "inadvertently sparked controversy," has been seen over a million times. Note the use of the word "inadvertently." I have never met Ms. Silverman, and while I am at times taken aback by the volume of expletives she uses in her stand-up comedy, I find her absurdist brand of equal-opportunity comedy, done with a sweetness like no other, to be very entertaining. More importantly, I find her PSAs and campaign ads to be highly effective. Some of you may recall this 2008 Obama for President ad, "The Great Schlep." It would have been easy to be offended, as a Jewish woman, and, yes, some of it was over the top, but I didn't take it personally. It was sponsored by the Jewish Council for Education and Research.

Here was another of her election-season videos, this time against voter suppression, "LetMyPeopleVote2012." Again, it's easy to take offense on a personal level, but I believe the video is quite effective overall.

She was hired to do the equal-pay video because her comedy is effective. I expect the current video, directed at the nearly 75 million working women in America, will be valuable as well. This video was to make a point about unequal pay for women -- all women, including trans women. It might not have been useful to include trans women explicitly; that could have been distracting for the vast majority of people who know nothing about trans people.

So why the problem?

The National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) said:

The National Center for Transgender Equality is struck by the insensitivity of Sarah Silverman's video and we have reached out to the National Women's Law Center to provide a cultural competency training to ensure that transgender people are always part of the conversation when it comes to the wage gap.


I know the senior leadership at the NWLC, and I can categorically state that they are allies of the trans community and need no sensitivity training. Being allies and aware of trans issues, they did not order a transphobic video to be made; they probably expected that trans persons, who have been gaining positive media exposure this past year, along with federal employment rights and advances on the state level, would be proud to be tangentially referenced in a humorous fashion.

I have gay friends who were annoyed by the use of sourdough penises in the video. They're gluten-sensitive, and celiac disease is a serious issue for them. Yet they didn't take it personally and storm off in a huff, complaining that the NWLC didn't consider their feelings. As for gender-confirmation surgery, Silverman does us a favor by destigmatizing anatomical terms related to sexual function. The more we can normalize basic anatomy, the more we can build acceptance for insurance coverage of genital reconstruction.

The trans community makes up, at current best count, 0.3 percent of the general population, or 1 million people, half of whom might be working-age. The video was directed at all of us, 75 million women strong. The video's primary point? Men are paid more than women. A study showed that when a trans woman transitions to live as a woman, she can expect her income to drop by a third, while the income of transitioning trans men rises a bit. The point is that specific anti-trans bias aside, the disparity is due to sexism. It's quite possible that if the ad agency had thought about it, they could have had Sarah add a line near the end that referenced that while her gender transition would increase her income, it would be much less for her as a transgender man. Maybe next time, which would be a useful ask of the NWLC.

A trans friend called this immediate backlash the "trans outrage machine," backlash from people who respond emotionally without rational consideration, who don't stop to think of the context or what their goal actually is. This kind of rage has been called "oppression sickness" and attributed to Flo Kennedy, the African-American feminist activist. We're trying to become accepted into American culture with full and equal rights, where we have the same opportunity to thrive as anyone else. Attacking friends publicly because of perceived slights doesn't help. Demanding complete and total acceptance without making an effort or meeting the other halfway will backfire. We've lived through such phases of American history enough times to know that you don't win friends with an absolutist test of political correctness. Those are not friends who will stand by you when the going becomes more difficult.

Joshua Rothman, writing about Gone Girl in a recent edition of The New Yorker, notes that "we're fascinated with stories of victimhood," yet he points out the danger of a "politicized, media-enabled culture of victimhood." That danger is staring us in the face when our friends are publicly attacked and our enemies laugh and build the case for the next swing of the American cultural pendulum. Some will respond that the potential for violence demands that we extirpate all references to gender transition to which anyone takes offense, yet when our rights and acceptance are limited by general ignorance, the way forward demands education, which requires compromise and not the imposition of a political culture that tries to protect everyone's feelings.

One can use this video to highlight the pain that trans persons experience in the workplace, as Parker Molloy does, but I feel we still need to remember that it is not always exclusively about us. We are a small part of the women's community and suffer along with cis women. (That's not even accounting for the fact that much transphobia and homophobia is rooted in misogyny.) I have spent over a decade pointing out that sex and gender are located primarily in the brain, rather than between the legs, but for most human beings that bit of knowledge has yet to be learned. As a result, I accept, for the foreseeable future, that "penis" is shorthand for "man," and "vagina" is shorthand for "woman" (and just being able to use those terms publicly is a huge advance in our puritanical culture).

An example of how absurd this demand for recognition and total re-engineering of our language has become occurred recently when a group called #protranschoice demanded that NARAL and Planned Parenthood stop saying that only women can get pregnant and have abortions.

I believe fully in self-determination and freedom and believe that trans men have as much right to get pregnant as women and should be treated with respect and understanding, but I do not support the demands for changing the language to accommodate those few dozen people. Such demands will engender a backlash that could damage the entire movement.

Our work over the past 15 years (with some successes even earlier) has created a national legal landscape where we have outlawed discrimination based on gender identity and expression in employment. Gender-nonconforming, genderqueer and classically transgender persons are protected. Such protections will encourage and assist the culture in evolving toward a more liberated society where gender is not imposed and policed. But demanding that one be treated with kid gloves, that everyone else's language be cleansed to avoid offense, and that any perceived insult will provoke outrage, is not the way to build a better America. We are becoming more visible, so more are becoming aware of us. There was no hostility toward trans women in the sketch. We need to lighten up and laugh a little. Let's not demand that everything having to do with sex and gender has to recognize us and our needs. Improving the lot of all women as a class improves the lives of trans women, so we don't need to explicitly "always [be a] part of the conversation when it comes to the wage gap." We're women, so we are already part of that conversation.

Here's A First Look At Kim Kardashian On '2 Broke Girls'

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Kim Kardashian's long-awaited '2 Broke Girls' appearance is approaching, and we finally have a first look.

Actress Beth Behrs tweeted a Whosay pic of the reality TV icon posed with her and co-star Kat Dennings on set.



"Monday. October. 27th. We're baaaaack. With a new friend- @KimKardashian," she wrote.

According to the snap, Kardashian makes her sitcom appearance in a signature crop top and pencil skirt combo. She looks glam as everything, per usual. Check out Kardashian's acting prowess on the "2 Broke Girls" season premiere, Monday Oct. 27 on CBS.

Megan Mullally And Nick Offerman's Marriage Is Just As Good As We Imagined

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Megan Mullally and Nick Offerman play less-than-amicable exes on "Parks and Rec," but in real life they are one of Hollywood's most beloved couples.

Mullally sat down with HuffPost Live's Ricky Camilleri on Thursday to talk about her enviable 11-year marriage.

"We have an especially good relationship and we really get a kick out of each other," she said. "I really like him. I like being around him, I like talking to him, I like looking at him. I think he's funny, I think he's cute, he's really nice. And I think he thinks all those things about me."

Although Mullally says that her relationship with Offerman has taken on "mythic proportions" among their fans and in the media, it turns out, it really is pretty damn great.

"I think sometimes we can see other couples and we'll get in the car afterward and be like, 'I don't think they like each other that much.'" She continued, "We have a little bit of superiority complex at times. We don't mean to."

The actress also said that she and Offerman have been joking recently that if they ever got into a fight in public, the world would probably come crashing down.

"It's going to be the headline of The New York Times because people have idealized our relationship to the point where it's like -- yeah, occasionally we argue. We're just like any other couple in that regard. But we don't argue that much. I think we really like each other, is the thing."

You can watch her the full HuffPost Live conversation here.

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Sting Sings Cellphone Ringtones For Jimmy Fallon And Every Little Thing He Does Is Magic

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He's sending out an SMS. Sting visited "The Tonight Show" on Thursday to talk about his Broadway play, "The Last Ship," and Jimmy Fallon got him to turn old cellphone ringtones into "Stingtones" because puns totally rule.

After the singer put his spin on the classic tones, he even recorded a voicemail message on a random audience member's phone in the style of "Message in a Bottle."

Is this even real life?

"The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon" airs weeknights at 11:35 p.m. ET on NBC.

The Foolproof Way To A Good Day, According To Dita Von Teese

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Dita Von Teese feels better than ever, whether she's dressed to the nines or lounging around sans makeup.

The 42-year-old chatted with HuffPost Live on Friday, and while she reveals that she dresses down on occasion, there's one makeup item that she always wears.

"On a normal day I wear red lipstick every day without fail, sunglasses, my hair in a bun and a dressed down version of this. The thing is, it's just sort of how it makes me feel during the day. I feel like I have a better day if I'm a little bit more put together," she told HuffPost Live.

To be honest, we wouldn't expect anything less from the sexy star.

Check out the clip above, and to see the entire interview head to HuffPost Live.

Bruce Jenner Dating Kris Jenner's Best Friend?

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Bruce Jenner is dating one of Kris Jenner's best friends ... TMZ has confirmed.

Joe Biden, Mariska Hargitay Team Up To Help Domestic Abuse Victims

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On Sunday, Americans' love for television binge-watching will end up helping fight domestic abuse -- at least, that's what Vice President Joe Biden and actress Mariska Hargitay are hoping for.

Biden will appear alongside Hargitay in a PSA addressing domestic violence scheduled to air during a "Law and Order: Special Victims Unit" marathon on USA Network, The Washington Post reported. Maile Zambuto, who is the chief executive of Hargitay’s foundation for survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse, Joyful Heart, told the outlet that episodes set to air during the marathon will focus on different aspects of the issue, including "teen dating violence, campus sexual assault, male sexual abuse [and] the cycle of violence.”

The duo, who are supporting the No More campaign, aim to provide victims and their loved ones with the resources to access help.

In one of three spots that will air on Sunday, Biden and Margitay point out the difference between how domestic violence is treated on-screen and off.

"On Law and Order: SVU, witnesses frequently come forward to help detectives track down offenders," Hargitay said in the PSA.

"But in real life, too often, people look the other way," Biden continued, noting that "domestic violence is never the victim's fault."

About 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men have been the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in the U.S., according to a 2010 survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

Biden, who spearheaded the Violence Against Women Act as a senator in 1994, teamed up with Hargitay last year at a news conference in Maryland. The event addressed the need to reduce domestic violence deaths in the U.S. Each year, 1,300 people die from intimate partner victimizations, according to the CDC.

View the full PSA on The Washington Post's website.

Need help? In the U.S., call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

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Lena Dunham Just Gave Taylor Swift's New Song The Ultimate Stamp Of Approval

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How's this for a BFF stamp of approval: Lena Dunham loves one of Taylor Swift's new songs so much, she would play it at her own wedding.

Swift has been releasing lyrics off her new album "1989" via Instagram leading up to the record's Oct. 27 release date. On Friday she gave us the following:

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The lyrics clearly struck a chord with Swift's bestie Lena Dunham because following the post, Dunham -- whose boyfriend Jack Antonoff is a producer on T-Swift's new album -- tweeted the pop star saying, "My someday wedding song, as you know."




The whole exchange has led us to wistfully hope that if Dunham and Antonoff do tie the knot, Swift might actually perform at the shindig.

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14 Baby Names Inspired By Country Music Stars

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There was a time when you could spot a country music guy or gal name a mile away. Tex and Buck, Jimmie and Johnny, Patty and Patsy, Minnie and Dottie. Things have changed, with contemporary country names now as citified as Taylor and Miranda.

So, October being Country Music Month, we’ve taken a look at both sides of the coin -- the time-honored names in the Country Music Hall of Fame and the more nouveau, to come up with our picks of the best country music names. (Incidentally, in addition to individual artists, there are some great band names, like Alabama and Sawyer Brown, as well as nicknames like Juice and surnames like Cash.)

Dolly

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Dolly Parton is the current poster girl for country music, having been on the scene for almost half a century, and known as much for her wit and wigs as her music. Dolly started out as a nickname for Dorothy, but has been used on its own since the 17th century and is showing signs of a comeback, already moving up in the UK.

Floyd

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Floyd Tillman -- old-style country singer, old-style country name. In the 30s and 40s, he was the guy who helped pioneer Western swing and honky tonk. The name Floyd still has a bit of that hayseed image, but an element of jazzy cool as well.

Minnie

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Born Sarah Ophelia Colley, Minnie Pearl was the classic Grand Ole Opry country comedian, a price tag always hanging from her funky hat. Minnie, originally a pet form of Minerva, was wildly popular at the turn of the last century, and is just the kind of name fans of Sadie and Maisie might want to revive.

Waylon

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One of the outlaw bad boys of country and rockabilly, Waylon Jennings was inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame in 2001. Originally named Wayland, he passed the Waylon name on to the son known as Shooter, who in turn used it for his own baby boy, called by his outlaw nickname, Blackjack.

Kitty

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Country music legend Kitty Wells, born Ellen Muriel, was the first female solo artist to hit the country charts in the 1950s, and was known as the Queen of Country Music. She borrowed her stage name from a folk tune, “Sweet Kitty Wells.” Kitty is one of the most endearing of the Katherine nicknames and has already been restored in England and Wales, where it’s ranked at Number 345.

Bellamy

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The Bellamy Brothers, David Milton and Homer Howard, share a surname, but it’s one that could be a most usable first. Meaning fine or beautiful friend, it could work for either gender -- there’s an actress named Bellamy Young. The country group The Bellamy Brothers was most popular in the 70s and 80s.

Patsy

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One of the most influential and acclaimed Nashville singers, who died tragically at the age of 30 in a plane crash, Patsy Cline was born Virginia and nicknamed Ginny, changing her name early in her career. Patsy is very much a pigtailed-poppet name of the past, still presenting a lot of youthful spunk. In the Top 100 from 1930 to 1948, Patsy faded away in 1975.

Darius

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Darius Rucker was the lead singer of the rock band Hootie & the Blowfish before becoming a Nashville country singer, the first black man to win the New Artist Award from the Country Music Association. Darius, a significant name in Persian history, and a character in the Hunger Games series, now ranks at Number 412 in the US.

Loretta

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Known as ‘The First Lady of Country music’ and ‘The Coal Miner’s Daughter’, legendary Loretta Lynn was named after the glamorous movie star Loretta Young. Loretta, along with other once-exotic names like Rita and Anita, have lost their Latin flair, but we see some revival possibilities down the road. Sarah Jessica Parker used Loretta as a middle name for one of her twin girls.

Paisley

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Winner of countless country music and Grammy awards, Brad Paisley has seen his surname take off -- for girls. Also the name of a Scottish town and an intricately patterned Indian fabric, Paisley is now Number 80 on the girls’ list, and looks to be headed higher.

Emmylou

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Singer-songwriter Emmylou Harris, who has crossed genres ranging from country to folk to pop, bears an old-timey smoosh of a name, reflecting her Alabama roots. With its combination of the fashionable Em and Lou sounds, we can see some country-loving parents possibly embracing it.

Urban

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Another surname possibility comes courtesy of Nicole Kidman’s handsome hub, the Australian country music singer and American Idol judge Keith Lionel Urban. Not heard in decades, Urban was well used through the 1930s, was the name of several saints and popes, and could now qualify as a citified word name.

Miranda

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Singer-songwriter Miranda Lambert, who was named after her Irish immigrant grandmother, Lucy-Miranda, gained fame as a finalist on the reality show Nashville Star and is married to Blake Shelton. Miranda, a lovely, poetic name invented by Shakespeare and now ranking at Number 245, is about as far from the stereotypical country moniker as you can get.

Blake

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Blake Tollison Shelton has been a country music star since 2001 and has served as a judge on several singing competitions. The rakish Blake is now Number 75 for boys, and is increasingly used for girls as well, especially since the emergence of the high-profile actress Blake Lively.



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Jennifer Lawrence's Response To Nude Photo Scandal Was Not 'Sexist, False and Sad'

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I recently stumbled across an article by Matt Fradd entitled "He Doesn't Need Your Sext: A Response To Jennifer Lawrence." The article addresses (from a highly religious standpoint) the leaked nude photos of Jennifer Lawrence and her response to said photos.

I typically try to keep my opinions on situations such as this on the down low, especially when religion enters the mix, but this response article pissed me off to the point that I felt inclined to write a response to Fradd's response.

To begin, the title. Of course he doesn't "need your sext." He wants it. There is a large difference, not to mention that Lawrence never claimed that the recipient of her photos "needed" them. The author puts his foot in his mouth and we've only made it through the title.

Fradd begins by stating, "I don't want to spend time talking about what a stupid idea it is to take and upload explicit photos of yourself (a.k.a. porn)." Wrong again.

First off, Fradd, if that isn't your intent then don't include the "a.k.a. porn" jab. And second, no. Just straight up no. Any explicit photo of oneself is not automatically categorized as pornography. Oxford dictionary defines pornography as "printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate erotic rather than aesthetic or emotional feelings."

Yes, Lawrence's leaked photos included sexual organs. But who is anyone to say that her intent was to stimulate erotic feelings? Sure, that was probably the case. But no one except Lawrence can or should attest to that.

Lawrence is quoted as stating, "I was in a loving, healthy, great relationship for four years. It was long-distance, and either your boyfriend is going to look at porn or he's going to look at you." The author attacked Lawrence for this claim, stating he found it "sexist, false, and sad."

Both claims are extreme -- I can recognize that. Lawrence's claim that he's "going to look at porn or he's going to look at you" is broad, as is Fradd's claim that her sentiment is "sexist, false and sad." But let's examine Fradd's reasoning behind the "sexist, false and sad" claim.

Fradd addresses the sexism aspect by countering Lawrence's claim in a "holier-than-thou" tone, stating "It doesn't describe many of the men I know -- men who are virtuous despite the temptations the world throws at them, who fight valiantly against selfishness, and desire to love the women they're with as Christ loved the Church."

Oh please. Come on. Sexism exists for a reason. Hell, Lawrence is probably correct in that most males will view porn in the absence of female presence. No male, no human for that matter, can act as if they have never lusted after something or someone. Not to mention, no one "fights valiantly" anymore. Fradd's response is a mechanism to make himself feel as if he is surrounded by the right people, people who live and love in the name of Christ. Sorry Fradd, but those people are still men, and men (as do women) occasionally think about sex with someone other than their partner -- it's involuntary.

Fradd then addresses the falsity of her claim, stating "And by 'look at you,' I assume she doesn't mean, 'look at you while you're praying the rosary on your evening walk together.'" No shit, Sherlock. She uses that phrase in the same sentence as the word porn -- of course she means "look at you" as in look at and appreciate your nude body. No one is denying that, including Lawrence. Fradd argues that Lawrence addresses the situation as "either/or" when in reality there is a third option -- chastity. Yes, chastity, right in line with "fighting valiantly."

Fradd goes on to state, "A person who cultivates the virtue of chastity is one who is in control of their sexual desire, rather than their sexual desire being in control of him or her." I'm sorry, but I do not know a single person who is literally controlled by their sexual desire. Swayed by it, maybe. Controlled, no. Lack of control implies addiction, in which case that person probably needs help. Fradd fails yet again at proving Lawrence's claim "false."

And third, her claim as "sad." Lawrence's statement is not sad. It is realistic. Fradd writes, "It's as if she's resigned herself to the belief that men are weak and lustful and so the best you can hope for is that they'll lust over you instead of the women in porn." Well... men are weak and lustful. So are women. It is a human fault.

But finally Fradd makes a point I can agree with: "She at least doesn't want a man she dates to lust over other women. That is, she wants a love that is faithful and exclusive." DUH. So do most people I know who are in a four-year relationship, like Lawrence was. At least he could pick up on that much.

Fradd ends on this holier-than-thou note: "It is our work to be examples today. You can show the world that there is a better, healthier way to love. True love is not resigned to the inevitability of lust. True love does not mean you need to take off your clothes so that your boyfriend or girlfriend will remain faithful to you. True love is found in the freedom of chastity."

I hate to break it to you buddy, but part of "true love" is a sexual relationship, and if I recall, that requires taking clothes off -- maybe not in the name of remaining faithful, but still. Lawrence was only trying to keep the spark in her relationship alive, and chastising her for that through religious angles achieves nothing.

If Lawrence wants to send nude photos to someone she has been in a long-term, long-distance relationship with, more power to her. She's hot, she's confident -- she should feel comfortable sending photos without fear of her privacy being impeded.

The bottom line of this entire scandal is not Lawrence's actions and the religious morals behind them, but the actions of the person or persons who invaded her privacy and allowed the world to see a very personal, private side of her.

And she shouldn't take the heat for that.

Ansel Elgort Found The Bench From 'The Fault In Our Stars'

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Okay? Okay. Ansel Elgort, star of many movies from the last 12 months, was in Amsterdam on Friday and re-found the bench made famous by his breakout release, "The Fault in Our Stars." Here are photos of Elgort's reunion with the spot, via his Instagram account.

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Asked two people kissing on the bench if that was the bench from tfios. Was a great moment, then asked them to take a pic for me

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HuffPost Live's 'Spoiler Alert' Discusses The Latest Frights Of 'American Horror Story'

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Jessica Lange is the matriarch of all things "American Horror Story," and with this week's second "Freak Show" installment, it feels like we're finally diving into the mystery and nuance of her character, Elsa Mars.

HuffPost Live's "Spoiler Alert" series talked Lange's character and the rest of this week's "AHS" on Friday. Host Ricky Camilleri and our panel of TV obsessives also touched on the latest episode of "How To Get Away With Murder" and engaged in a debate about sex on television, centering around the controversial episode of "The Mindy Project" that brought anal to primetime.

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'How To Get Away With Murder' Perfectly Takes On The Western Beauty Myth

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ALERT: The following piece and video contain spoilers for Thursday's episode of "How to Get Away with Murder."

Hit Shondaland drama "How to Get Away with Murder" continues to establish itself as one of television's most progressive shows, and Thursday's episode was no exception. Aside from its realistic depiction of gay sex, which Vanity Fair discussed at length, the episode took on the Western Beauty Myth -- which suggests thin, white, glossy-haired women are the peak of attractiveness -- with aplomb. (The same myth that led to Alessandra Stanley's tone deaf piece describing star Viola Davis as "less classically beautiful.") In the final two minutes of the show, Davis' Annalise takes off her wig, jewelry and makeup onscreen, in an arresting moment that shows her unadorned.

The more television -- a medium which usually so stringently upholds discriminatory standards of beauty -- pokes holes in the illusion that women "woke up like this," the more cultural notions of what people of all races do and should look like can expand. Check out the clip, and hope that more TV shows follow in the fantastic drama's footsteps.

Cocaine Withdrawals and Blood Transfusions: Clive Owen On The Season Finale Of 'The Knick'

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WARNING: Major spoilers ahead. Do not read on if you haven't seen the Season 1 finale of "The Knick."

"The Knick" ended its 10-episode debut season on Friday, and the hope each character found in his or her new beginnings was bookended with a sense of dread. Thackery discovers an unfortunate way to kick his cocaine habit in the form of 1900-era heroin. Barrow bests Bunky Collier, but Mr. Wu learns of his manipulation. Cornelia's wedding day arrives, but she's haunted by the thought of her clandestine abortion and her feelings for Dr. Edwards. And Edwards himself is given the chance to shine while Thack is out of commission, but he, too, must suffer knowing Cornelia is off vowing to love another man. No character wins, but the show surely does. This was a stunner of a season finale, exemplifying the best of Steven Soderbergh's slow-burning drama. HuffPost Entertainment caught up with star Clive Owen, who plays Thackery, to discuss the finale.

Did you study cocaine withdrawal to decide what that would look like once Thackery's supply runs out?
I did as much research as I could. The great thing is that cocaine shortage again was based on fact. Everything in the show is inspired by real events. The idea of starving Thackery of his drug and then coming back and this more than ever was a brilliant way of climaxing. To go through that period of struggle, of not having the drug and then getting it and taking too much, was always, I felt, a great way to build him toward the end.

Nurse Elkin's role in procuring cocaine is fascinating. Does Thackery really love her, or does he only appreciate when she can do things for him?
I think by that time he’s a desperate addict. When she delivers that and when she finally comes through with the cocaine, he’s like, "She’s the most beautiful, loving person." He’s a desperate addict by this point. Just the fact that she’s delivering what he needs is everything.

We see him compete to advance various surgical procedures, but he does it mostly out of ego so he'll always be considered the best. How much does Thackery actually care about medicine?
I really do think by the ending couple of episodes that he’s completely lost his way. He’s a complete paranoid, competitive mess by the end. He is brilliant, but by this point he’s in a desperate place and he’s not thinking straight. That’s kind of where we’re taking him -- he’s heading for a fall.

Many of the surgery scenes are both graphic and relatively primitive. Is there a doctor on set guiding how they should look?
Yes, we had the most amazing expert, a guy called Dr. Stanley Burns, who runs this archive of literally hundreds of thousands of photographs from this period in the world. The show is like his fantasy come to life. He has an unbelievable wealth of material; he has medical documents that were handed between doctors at the turn of the century, he has instruments that were used at the time. He was there for every single operation and would be able to describe exactly how it would have been done, so we leaned on him tremendously.

That blood-transfusion scene in the finale is wild. Surely some of that is CGI.
Really, I have to say that the prosthetics guy on this thing did an absolutely unbelievable job throughout, and there’s so little CGI in this whole series. Everything is totally convincing, even to the naked eye, including that transfusion scene. That was the one scene where I remember I turned to Steven at one point and said, “How on earth are we ever going to bring back Thackery from this?” Will we ever be able to redeem him from this? I mean, in such a coked-up state, to be attempting something like that with this poor little girl, it’s a wild as it could get. But that’s the make of the show.

Do you think Bertie made the right choice in remaining so loyal to Thackery, especially at the end when he realizes what's been going on?
It’s difficult because Thackery does eventually go off the rails, but there’s no question that, at the beginning when we meet him, Thackery is a genius. He’s learned an incredible lot. That’s the journey of what happens, but there’s no question that Bertie would have learned an awful lot, but he’s also had to withstand an awful lot.

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What do you think happened to Abigail and her syphilis nose?
We might not have seen the last of her. I won’t say anymore on that.

We've seen shocking surgeries all season, but the most jarring moment probably comes when we see that Eleanor's teeth have been removed because that's how doctors thought they'd cure mental illness.
I agree with you. It is shocking, and what’s shocking is that that was the practice at the time. That was real. They actually really did think that. And the scary thing, when you do a show like this, is that what we’d be doing in 40 or 50 years’ time would make us think, "How on Earth could we have thought that was right?" How on Earth could a doctor really have believed that?

It must be hard to shoot in contemporary downtown New York but make every scene look and feel like it's set in 1900.
Steven has just the most incredible people around him that he’s been working with for a long time. What was really incredible is when you film on one of those outside days, you’d come to the exterior of the hospital and you’d walk on and everything would already be up and running. You’d do a shot in the carriage and it would pull up and you’d get out and 20 minutes later we’d be on to something else. It was so incredibly efficient, and they were so focused in getting those big outside scenes nailed so quickly. There were very challenging days -- we were shooting real New York Chinatown for 1900 Chinatown. We’d find a block in there that we’d dress and shoot, but you can imagine the logistics of trying to pull that off. They went in there and they were just incredibly together.

What's the most fascinating thing you've learned about medicine in 1900?
The thing that you’re kind of left with is just how much they were shooting from the hip. It was a time of change; things were coming big and fast. They were rethinking things on a weekly basis. At the time, doctors were sharing information across America and Europe. It was a wildly exciting time in terms of the breakthroughs they were making, probably this time in this period more than any other period.

You've worked with Robert Altman, Mike Nicholas, Alfonso Cuarón and Spike Lee. What does Steven Soderbergh, the consummate multitasker, bring to "The Knick" that no other director could?
I think the reason no other director could have taken this on and done it the way that he did it is that he has done everything. He directs, he operates, he lights, he edits, and it’s a singular vision. It’s 10 hours of television that completely comes back to one man and a singular vision. To have that is really extraordinary because I don’t know of any of the other directors you mentioned or any director that I’ve worked with who could do that and could hold the whole canal like he approached it at the speed with which he approached it. And he dealt with something so rich and detailed. He’s extraordinary in that way; there is no one like him. For an actor to work with that is a real privilege because he’s so on top of all aspects of what’s going on that you’re kind of left just worrying about your acting, which is a great place to be because you’re so sure. It’s a one-stop gig. You know that it all comes back to him. There’s something kind of great about that, about shooting a scene and there not being that dialogue of, “What if we did this?” or “What if we did that?” No. It goes back to that guy and his vision and his taste and his talent. I’m telling you he’s a hugely, hugely impressive person.

When does Season 2 start filming?
We go into pre-production soon and I think I’m heading out to New York for January.

What do you hope to see in Thackery's future now that he's been exposed to heroin?
He's been so edgy in his story and so visceral and dangerous. What’s great is the idea of being able to go into the next season and it could just pick up and hit the ground running, taking it further and exploring new territories. I’ve got a number of the scripts already and it’s just really exciting where we can take it.
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